On leading a life

Be the own boss of your life.

Drive your own car. 

Set clear conditions for how others should treat you based on how you treat others.

Hold everyone accountable - if they don't treat you like the way you need to be treated. 

Guard the peace of your life. 

Set the direction of your life. 

Chart the course of your life. 

Don't let someone take over your life. 

Don't allow anyone to hold the gates of your peace. Not even slightly. 

Don't be hostage to anyone or anything that poisons your peace. 

Be very aware of any and everything that creates ripples or infiltrates or upsets the sanctuary of who you are - 

You go where you want to go. Decided by you. 

You do what you want to do. Decided by you. 

You be. As you are. Willed by you. 

Nobody is in you - telling you what to do or how to be. 

You are you 

There is no one inside you or hiding somewhere that is altering something or not allowing to be pure you. 

You are owned by you. Governed by you. Controlled by you. You set the conditions and actions and directions and course of living. 

Every time you do something. Check:

Is there someone else in this picture of what you are doing? 

Or are you not doing something because of someone else? 

Be aware of this. 

You are the leader of your life. 

Every minute you decide for yourself what you want to do. 

Be the leader of your life, every step of the way.