You blew it

YOU blew it!!

You can blame only YOU for your actions.

You had a good husband.
You treated him badly.
YOU blew it!!!

He gave you a chance to keep the house.
You decided to fight him instead!
Fight him over.....what is best for the kids? 

You blew it!!

You blew it!!

You blew it!!

And guess what?

You will keep blowing it and blowing it and blowing it until one day you will come to realize that YOU are the only one who is responsible for your actions. yes, YOU! 

YOU are the only one who can be blamed for the consequences of your actions !

They will be no one else to blame but YOU!

And you will be forced to put an end to your disease of blaming others!

And then, there will be no one else but YOU.

You are responsible for your actions and your actions have consequences!!! 

OWN your actions! 

ACCEPT the consequences of your actions!

Unless you come to realize this truth - you will continue to keep blowing it.. and blaming others while you are blowing it.